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Qur'an Contradiction: Is there a minimum age for marriage?
Qur'an Contradiction
The Age of Marriage
Sam Shamoun
The Quran, in at least one passage, presupposes that there is an age which a girl must
attain before she can be considered marriageable:
And try orphans (as regards their intelligence) until they reach the age of
marriage; if then you find sound judgement in them, release their property to
them, but consume it not wastefully, and hastily fearing that they should grow up, and
whoever amongst guardians is rich, he should take no wages, but if he is poor, let him
have for himself what is just and reasonable (according to his work). And when you release
their property to them, take witness in their presence; and Allah is All Sufficient in
taking account. S. 4:6 Hilali-Khan
Note that the expression "until they reach the age of marriage" takes
it for granted that there is an age that girls have to reach before a man can marry
them. Presumably, that age would be puberty, a point accepted by Muslim expositors.
Here are three commentaries regarding the meaning of the above text, taken from some
of Islams greatest scholars and exegetes:
(Prove orphans) test the intelligence of orphans (till they reach the marriageable age)
the age of puberty;
(Tanw顁 al-Miqb鈙 min Tafs顁 Ibn Abb鈙;
source;
bold and italic emphasis ours)
Try, test, well the orphans, before reaching maturity with regard [the duties of]
religion and [before] they can [legally] manage their own affairs, until they reach the
age of marrying, that is, until they have become eligible for it through puberty or
[legal] age, which, according to al-Shafi'i, is the
completion of fifteen years;
(Tafsir Al-Jalalayn;
source;
bold and underline emphasis ours)
<until they reach the age of marriage>, the age of puberty,
according to Mujahid. The age of puberty according to the majority of scholars
comes when the child has a wet dream. In his Sunan, Abu Dawud recorded that `Ali said,
"I memorized these words from the Messenger of Allah,
<<There is no orphan after the age of puberty nor vowing to be silent
throughout the day to the night.>>" In another Hadith, `A'ishah and other
Companions said that the Prophet said
<<The pen does not record the deeds of three persons: the child until the age
of puberty, the sleeping person until waking up, and the senile until sane.>> Or,
the age of fifteen is considered the age of adolescence. In the Two Sahihs, it is
recorded that Ibn `Umar said, "I was presented in front of the Prophet on the eve of
the battle of Uhud, while I was fourteen years of age, and he did not allow me to take
part in that battle. But I was presented in front of him on the eve of the battle of
Al-Khandaq (The Trench) when I was fifteen years old, and he allowed me (to join that
battle)." `Umar bin `Abdul-`Aziz commented when this Hadith reached him, "This
is the difference between a child and an adult." There is a difference of opinion
over whether pubic hair is considered a sign of adulthood, and the correct opinion is that
it is. The Sunnah supports this view, according to a Hadith collected by Imam Ahmad from
`Atiyah Al-Qurazi who said, "We were presented to the Prophet on the day of Quraizah,
whoever had pubic hair was killed, whoever did not was left free to go, I was one of those
who did not, so I was left free." The Four Sunan compilers also recorded similar to
it. At-Tirmidhi said, "Hasan Sahih." (Tafsir Ibn Kathir;
source;
bold and capital emphasis ours)
All three of the above commentators agree that puberty is the right age for a girl to
consider marriage, with both Ibn Kathir and al-Shafi placing that age at fifteen. Al-Shafi
happened to be one of the greatest Islamic scholars and jurists and even has an Islamic
school of jurisprudence named after him.
Once again, Muhammad is found violating his very own command since he married a girl
who was nine years old:
Narrated Aisha:
The Prophet engaged me when I was a girl of six (years). We went to Medina and stayed at
the home of Bani-al-Harith bin Khazraj. Then I got ill and my hair fell down. Later on my
hair grew (again) and my mother, Um Ruman, came to me while I was playing in a swing
with some of my girl friends. She called me, and I went to her, not knowing what she
wanted to do to me. She caught me by the hand and made me stand at the door of the house.
I was breathless then, and when my breathing became all right, she took some water and
rubbed my face and head with it. Then she took me into the house. There in the house I saw
some Ansari women who said, "Best wishes and Allah's Blessing and a good luck."
Then she entrusted me to them and they prepared me (for the marriage). Unexpectedly
Allah's Apostle came to me in the forenoon and my mother handed me over to him, and at
that time I was a girl of nine years of age. (Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 5, Book 58,
Number 234)
Narrated 'Aisha:
that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage
when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till
his death). (Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 62,
Number 64;
see also Numbers 65 and 88)
A Muslim may say that, contrary to the opinion of Ibn Kathir and al-Shafi, the age of
puberty cannot be fixed at fifteen since some girls attain puberty at a younger age. They
may further argue that Aisha happened to attain puberty at nine, which means that she was
lawful for Muhammad. The problem with this assertion is that it contradicts the express
statements of specific Islamic sources that say that Aisha hadnt attained puberty
when Muhammad consummated his marriage with her:
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon
him) married her when she was seven years old, and he was taken to his house AS A
BRIDE WHEN SHE WAS NINE, AND HER DOLLS WERE WITH HER; and when he (the Holy
Prophet) died she was eighteen years old. (Sahih Muslim, Book 008,
Number 3311)
The reason why Muhammad permitted Aisha to take her dolls to his house and play with
them after their marriage was because she hadnt reached puberty:
Narrated 'Aisha:
I used to play with the dolls in the presence of the Prophet, and my girl friends also
used to play with me. When Allah's Apostle used to enter (my dwelling place) they used to
hide themselves, but the Prophet would call them to join and play with me. (The playing
with the dolls and similar images is forbidden, but it was allowed for 'Aisha at that
time, as she was a little girl, NOT YET REACHED THE AGE OF PUBERTY.)
(Fateh-al-Bari page 143, Vol.13) (Sahih Al-Bukhari, Volume 8, Book 73,
Number 151)
The problems are just starting for Muslims. Elsewhere in the Quran men are permitted to
marry and divorce young girls who havent attained sexual maturity:
And those of your women as have passed the age of monthly courses, for them the 'Iddah
(prescribed period), if you have doubts (about their periods), is three months, and
for those who have no courses [(i.e. they are still immature) their 'Iddah
(prescribed period) is three months likewise, except in case of death]. And for those who
are pregnant (whether they are divorced or their husbands are dead), their 'Iddah
(prescribed period) is until they deliver (their burdens), and whosoever fears Allah and
keeps his duty to Him, He will make his matter easy for him. S. 65:4 Hilali-Khan
Those who havent menstruated yet are girls who havent attained maidenhood
or puberty. The Quran says that there is no waiting period (iddah) for those women
whose marriages have not been consummated:
O ye who believe! When ye marry believing women, and then divorce them before ye
have touched them, no period of 'Iddat have ye to count in respect of them: so
give them a present. And set them free in a handsome manner. S. 33:49 Hilali-Khan
What this means is that Q. 65:4 is referring to young prepubertal girls (girls who
havent attained sexual maturation) who got married and were divorced sometime after
the consummation of their marriages!
Lest a Muslim accuse us of distorting the meaning of the reference, here, once again,
are the three exegetes we had cited earlier:
(And for such of your women as despair of menstruation) because of old age, (if ye
doubt) about their waiting period, (their period (of waiting) shall be three months) upon
which another man asked: "O Messenger of Allah! What about the waiting period
of those who do not have menstruation BECAUSE THEY ARE TOO YOUNG?" (along
with those who have it not) because of young age, their waiting period is
three months. Another man asked: "what is the waiting period for those women who are
pregnant?" (And for those with child) i.e. those who are pregnant, (their period)
their waiting period (shall be till they bring forth their burden) their child. (And
whosoever keepeth his duty to Allah) and whoever fears Allah regarding what he commands
him, (He maketh his course easy for him) He makes his matter easy; and it is also said
this means: He will help him to worship Him well. (Tanw顁 al-Miqb鈙 min Tafs顁 Ibn Abb鈙;
source;
bold, capital and italic emphasis ours)
And [as for] those of your women who (read alla'i or alla'i in both instances)
no longer expect to menstruate, if you have any doubts, about their waiting period, their
prescribed [waiting] period shall be three months, and [also for] those who have not yet
menstruated, because of their young age, their period shall [also] be three months
- both cases apply to other than those whose spouses have died; for these [latter] their
period is prescribed in the verse: they shall wait by themselves for four months and ten
[days] [Q. 2:234]. And those who are pregnant, their term, the conclusion of their
prescribed [waiting] period if divorced or if their spouses be dead, shall be when they
deliver. And whoever fears God, He will make matters ease for him, in this world and in
the Hereafter. (Tafsir al-Jalalayn;
source)
The `Iddah of Those in Menopause and Those Who do not have Menses
Allah the Exalted clarifies the waiting period of the woman in menopause. And that
is the one whose menstruation has stopped due to her older age. Her `Iddah is three
months instead of the three monthly cycles for those who menstruate, which is based upon
the Ayah in (Surat) Al-Baqarah. [see 2:228] The same for the young, WHO HAVE NOT
REACHED THE YEARS OF MENSTRUATION. Their `Iddah is three months like those in
menopause. This is the meaning of His saying
<and for those who have no courses...> as for His saying
<if you have doubt
> There are two opinions: First, is the saying of
a group of the Salaf, like Mujahid, Az-Zuhri and Ibn Zayd. That is, if they see blood and
there is doubt if it was menstrual blood or not. The second, is that if you do not know
the ruling in this case, then know that their `Iddah is three months. This has been
reported from Sa`id bin Jubayr and it is the view preferred by Ibn Jarir. And this is the
more obvious meaning. Supporting this view is what is reported from Ubay bin Ka`b that he
said, "O Allah's Messenger! Some women were not mentioned in the Qur'an, THE YOUNG,
the old and the pregnant." Allah the Exalted and Most Honored sent down this Ayah
<Those in menopause among your women, for them the `Iddah, if you have doubt, is
three months; and for those who have no courses. And for those who are pregnant, their
`Iddah is until they lay down their burden.> Ibn Abi Hatim recorded a simpler
narration than this one from Ubay bin Ka`b who said, "O Allah's Messenger!
When the Ayah in Surat Al-Baqarah was revealed prescribing the `Iddah of divorce,
some people in Al-Madinah said, `There are still some women whose `Iddah has
not been mentioned in the Qur'an. There are THE YOUNG, the old whose menstruation
is discontinued, and the pregnant. (Tafsir Ibn Kathir;
source;
capital and underline emphasis ours)
These scholars werent alone in claiming that Q. 65:4 refers to prepubertal girls
getting married and divorced by Muslim men. Notice what the modern, late Muslim
commentator Syed Abu-Ala Maududi wrote regarding this very verse:
They may not have menstruated as yet either because of young age, or delayed menstrual
discharge as it happens in the case of some women, or because of no discharge at all
throughout life which, though rare, may also be the case. In any case, the waiting-period
of such a woman is the same as of the woman, who has stopped menstruation, that is three
months from the time divorce was pronounced.
Here, one should bear in mind the fact that according to the explanations given in
the Qur'an the question of the waiting period arises in respect of the women with whom
marriage may have been consummated, for there is no waiting-period in case divorce is
pronounced before the consummation of marriage. (Al-Ahzab: 49). Therefore, making
mention of the waiting-period for girls who have not yet menstruated, clearly proves
that it is not only permissible to give away the girl at this age but it is permissible
for the husband to consummate marriage with her. Now, obviously no Muslim has the right
to forbid a thing which the Quran has held as permissible. (Maududi,
Towards Understanding the Quran, volume 5, p. 620, note 13;
source;
bold emphasis ours)
Moreover, note how the hadith compiler al-Bukhari explained this passage:
XXXIX. A man giving his young children in marriage
By the words of Allah, "that also applies to those who have not yet
menstruated" (65:4) and He made the 'idda of a girl before puberty three
months.
4840. It is related from 'A'isha that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, married her when she was six years old and consummated it when she was nine, and
she was his wife for nine years. (Aisha Bewley, The Sahih Collection of Al-Bukhari,
Chapter 70. Book of Marriage; source)
The imam al-Bukhari used Aishas marriage as an illustration of a prepubescent
girl who was married, thereby supporting the fact that Q. 65:4 does permit men to marry
prepubescents. Moreover, the imams comments provide additional corroboration that
Muhammad married Aisha before she reached maidenhood!
So now we have a contradiction between two directives of the Quran, one that presupposes
a marriageable age for girls and the other which places no limits on the age a girl can
get married!
Hence, no matter from what angle a Muslim tries to examine this, Muhammad still turns
out to be guilty of breaking his own commands and of introducing contradictory teachings
within his so-called miracle, the Quran.
Further Reading
http://answering-islam.org/Shamoun/prepubescent.htm
http://answering-islam.org/Shamoun/prepubescent2.htm
http://answering-islam.org/Silas/childbrides.htm
http://answering-islam.org/Shamoun/women_in_islam3.htm
http://www.muslimhope.com/aishanine.htm
http://faithfreedom.org/Articles/sina/ayesha.htm
http://faithfreedom.org/Articles/sina/ayesha_age.htm
http://faithfreedom.org/Articles/sina/ayesha_moraleval.htm
http://faithfreedom.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=10197
http://faithfreedom.org./forum/viewtopic.php?t=1997&start=0
http://faithfreedom.org/forum/viewtopic.php?p=105103#105103
http://www.wikiislam.org/wiki/Aisha's_Age_of_Consummation
http://www.wikiislam.org/wiki/Consummate
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