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PostPosted: Tue Jun 15, 2004 2:20 am    Post subject: Was Aisha Pubescent On Her Marriage? Reply with quote

WAS AISHA AT PUBERTY AT HER MARRIAGE?

There are present definitions of pedophilia that do not consider puberty a valid defense against pedophilia (Child Molesters: A Behavioural Analysis for Law Enforcement Officers Investigating the Sexual Exploitation of Children by Acquaintance Molesters; US Department of Justice – Centre for Sex Offender Management).

While stressing that puberty is not a valid defense against pedophilia, we often hear Islamists argue that Aisha had reached puberty when Muhammad married her and consummated the marriage. But where’s the evidence for this?

By the commentary of the famous Hadith scholar and Qadi of Egypt, Imam Al-Hafiz Ibn Hajar Al-'Asqalani, it may be surmised that Aisha had not in fact reached puberty when Muhammad married her and had sex with her.

This is also supported by the opinion of the great Imam, Abu Ubaid al-Qaasim bin Sallaam al-Baghdaadee, who said that "We don't see there being any reason for that (permission to play with her dolls), except due to the fact that these toys are a source of amusement (lahw) for the children. So, if they were owned by adults, it would definitely have been detestable (makhrooh)."

Note here how Abu Ubaid refers to girls playing with dolls as children, not adults, supporting the assertion of Ibn Hajar that Aisha was allowed to play with dolls because she had not reached the age of puberty.


Sahih Bukhari Volume 8, Book 73, Number 151
Narrated 'Aisha: I used to play with the dolls in the presence of the Prophet, and my girl friends also used to play with me. When Allah's Apostle used to enter they used to hide themselves, but the Prophet would call them to join and play with me. (The playing with the dolls and similar images is forbidden, but it was allowed for 'Aisha at that time, as she was a little girl, not yet reached the age of puberty.) (Fateh-al-Bari page 143, Vol.13)



Sahih Muslim Book 8, Number 3311
'A'isha reported that Allah's Apostle married her when she was seven years old, and she was taken to his house as a bride when she was nine, and her dolls were with her; and when he died she was eighteen years old.


This hadith says that when she married Muhammad, Aisha brought her dolls with her. By Ibn Hajar’s explanation about doll-playing, it would seem that Aisha had not reached puberty when she married Muhammad.


Sunan Abu Dawood, Vol. 3, #4914
The Messenger of Allah returned from the battle of Tabook or Khaibar (the narrator of the hadith was in doubt about whether he was told "Tabook or Khaibar."). There was a curtain covering her 'sahwah' (chamber or small room in front of the house). The wind blew a side of the curtain and uncovered Aisha's dolls. He said: What is this, O Aisha? She said: My dolls. The he saw amongst them a horse with two wings from scraps of cloth. He said: What is this which I see amongst them (amongst the dolls)? She said: A horse. He asked: What is upon it? She said: Two wings. He asked (in astonishment): A horse with two wings? She said: Didn't you hear that Sulaiman (Solomon - AS) had horses with wings? She said: Then he laughed until I saw his molar teeth. [Abu Daawood, An-Nasaa'iee as-Sunan al-Kubraa, Albani (ra) says the chain of narrators of an-Nasaa'ee is authentic (Saheeh). As for the chain of narrators of Abu Daawood, Albani (ra) has also declared it to be authentic (saheeh)].



Shaykh Muhammad Shams al-Haqq al-'Adheem Aabaadee, in his Sharh (explanation) of Sunan Abu Daawood, says: This hadith and the one before it (Hadith #20) is used as an evidence of permissibility of possession of dolls and toys for the purpose of little girls playing with them. This (permission) is a special exception from the general prohibition of possession of images (suwar).

This position has been stated with certainty by al-Qaadee 'Iyaad, and he has quoted it as the opinion of the Jumhoor (Majority of Scholars). He also said that the Jumhoor has allowed the sale of toys (dolls) for little girls, in order to train and prepare them from childhood for their household affairs and the raising of their children.

Analysis:
According to the generally accepted tradition, Aisha was born about eight years before Hijrah. The battle of Khaibar took place in 7 AH. The siege of Tabuk took place in 9 AH.

It is generally accepted that Aisha was betrothed to Muhammad at the age of 6 in the year 3 BH. This is confirmed by reports that the marriage was consummated in Shawwal, which came seven months after the Prophet's hijra from Makkah to al-Medinah.

So the Abu Dawood hadith says that Aisha was still playing with dolls at least as late as 7 AH. That is 6-7 years after her marriage. If Ibn Hajar, Abu Ubaid, al-Qaadee 'Iyaad, and Shaykh Muhammad Shams al-Haqq are correct then Aisha did not reach puberty until at least 6-7 years after her marriage when she would have been about 15-16 years old.



Can Islamists shed some light on this inconsistency when they claim that Aisha had reached puberty when she married Muhammad and had sex with him? Please provide solid evidence, not hearsay or traditions. Hadiths would be appreciated. Commentaries by famous hadith scholars would be appreciated. Supposition from muslim customs and laws will not be accepted as it can already be seen that Muhammad lived by different rules from his followers.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 15, 2004 4:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

بسم االله الرحمن الرحيم



Hector wrote:
we often hear Islamists argue that Aisha had reached puberty when Muhammad married her and consummated the marriage. But where’s the evidence for this?



There need not be any evidence. There is one possibility. Precocious puberty often begins before age 8 in girls, triggering the development of breasts and hair under the arms and in the genital region. The onset of ovulation and menstruation also may occur.
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 15, 2004 4:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hello Zorasta_Russ,

The issue here is not about precocious puberty. The issue is the inconsistency between the hadith sources and the learned opinions of great and famous hadith scholars on the one hand and on the other hand, the claims by Islamists that Aisha had reached the age of puberty when she married Muhammad and had sex with him.

According to the learned scholars and the hadiths I have quoted, it seems that some hadith scholars make pronouncements about girls and doll-playing that provide supporting evidence that Aisha was not at the age of puberty when she married and had sex with Muhammad.

I want to know how Islamists can justify their view that Aisha had reached puberty when she married and had sex with Muhammad. Where's the evidence? Pointing to the possibility of precocious puberty is not evidence as there is no proof that Aisha did achieve precocious puberty.

Please don't sweep away embarrassing or potentially embarrassing facts by negating the evidence. Islamists say Aisha had reached puberty when she married and had sex with Muhammad. I am not convinced. I want to see the evidence.
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 15, 2004 6:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zorasta_Russ wrote:
بسم االله الرحمن الرحيم



Hector wrote:
we often hear Islamists argue that Aisha had reached puberty when Muhammad married her and consummated the marriage. But where’s the evidence for this?



There need not be any evidence. There is one possibility. Precocious puberty often begins before age 8 in girls, triggering the development of breasts and hair under the arms and in the genital region. The onset of ovulation and menstruation also may occur.

By this 'logic', there need not be any evidence for murder either since the possibility exists that a man could sneak up behind another and stab him in the back. So convenient that requests for evidence is simply swept away replace with biology and 'possiblity'.
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 15, 2004 6:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Typical Islamist nonsense.

When Islamists make claims they don't need to provide evidence.

When non-Muslims make claims Islamists demand evidence.

DOUBLE-STANDARDS that reveal Islamists really have no intellectual standing behind their rantings.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 21, 2004 1:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Any bright Islamists want to have a go at this one? It's quite central to the question of whether Muhammad is a pedophile or not.

The implications are pretty clear: If the Islamist's claim that Aisha had reached puberty by the time of her marriage to Muhammad is proven false - i.e. they are telling lies, then their whole case breaks down.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 21, 2004 2:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear Hector

I doubt that Islamists will have a go at this one. However I don't believe the story about Mohammed's marriage to Aiesha. It's a story put together from gossip and rumor.

Rumors usually arise because of a lack of information. From Mohammed's death until Ibn Ishaq is about 3 generations which is more than enough time for rumor to become legend. Then legend becomes sacred history which is mythology.

I don't like to waste my time proving that Mohammed was a pedophile.
Although Mohammed is mentioned in extra-Islamic sources dating around the middle of the 7th century, for example Doctrina Jacobi, I can't prove that Aiesha existed.


Answers from Islamists will vary. One will tell you that the Qur'an is their primary source of guidance and that you are quoting weak Hadiths. Another one will tell you that girls menstruate earlier in hot climates. A few will deny the story because it is not in the Qur'an. There is a mass of contridictions from Islamic sources.


Islam has a problem here. If the stories about Mohammed are false then so is Islam. If the stories are true then he was a criminal unfit to be a prophet of God.


Regards Russell
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 21, 2004 3:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks Zorasta_Russ,

I'm not sure you can call Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim weak hadiths. Also, I have quoted really eminent Hadith Scholars - Ibn Hajar is one of the most eminent of all Hadith scholars, in fact, and I'm not quoting Ibn Ishaq - they are totally different people. Islamists may claim Ibn Ishaq to be false, but they really can't claim the Qadi of Egypt and the author of Fath al-Bari to be false.

As for weak hadiths, I must admit that some people consider Sunan Abu Dawud less authoritative than Bukhari or Muslim. However, I say that weak hadiths are better than no hadiths.

The point I'm making is: Islamists like to claim Aisha was pubescent at the time of her marriage to Muhammad, thereby absolving him of pedophilia (which I have already proven false). I just want to make the point here that they have no proof that Aisha was pubescent at the time of her marriage to Muhammad. Islamists are either lying or are ignorant when they make this assertion.

Also, the proof or otherwise of the existence of Muhammad, Aisha or other members of the early Islamist community does not change the facts of Islam. If Muslims believe in the words of a genocidal, sex-slave-keeping, pedophilic madman and they believe he married a 9-year-old girl, who am I to quibble? All I can do is to show up the despicable character of Muhammad and his pedophilic marriage to Aisha.
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PostPosted: Thu Jun 24, 2004 5:35 am    Post subject: What a girl experiences as a victim from sex at an early age Reply with quote

Among girls who have been molested or had sex at an early age, it can bring on menstration earlier than at the age we mostly associate it with. But the age she was when she began to menstrate to me is not so much the issue as what any girl that age would be thinking. In that age, a 50 year old man was quite old, but he was famous.

Even if she had started having periods, at nine a girl is not fully grown, neither in her height, nor in the length of her internal parts. It was cruelty. And there was no reason for it. How many other women did he also have? Lots, and as far as their feelings went, was he concerned? No. If he split Aisha wide open, was Mohammad concerned? No.

You can also imagine that among his harem were women taken captive whose husbands and sons had been killed, and whether they had seen it happen or not, they knew Mohammad had had them killed or had killed himself. Can you imagine their horror or disgust at having sex with this dirty old man?!? One, her name Maryiam, never gave up her Christian faith.

Was being a sex slave better than if he had also had the women killed? I have to ask if it were me, would I want to live? I have heard it argued that because there was a man shortage, it was good for the women to be in a harem of a wealthy man. Well, if it wasn't for the DOM, they might have had husbands.

How he lived was deplorable, his prophecies were just evil. It would be better to have no religion than this one.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 27, 2004 10:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Quran states
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Let the (divorce) waiting period be the same for those who have not yet menstruated (pre-pubertal girls) - Quran 65:4
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This Quranic verse clearly implies that Islam endorses marital sex with prepubertal girls, as the divorce waiting period only applies if Islamic marriage has been consumated:

Believers, if you marry believing women and divorce them before the marriage is consummated, there is no need to observe the waiting period (Q 33:49).

So it doesn't really matter whether or not Aisha had attained puberty when Mohammed raped her, because the Quran tacitly endorses marital sex with pre-pubertal girls.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 28, 2004 2:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Proving Aisha was prepubescent when Muhammad first bonked her exposes him as a pervert. Thus, all Muslims are followers of a pervert and believe in a pervert's beliefs. There is no credibility left in the Quran once Muhammad is proven to be a pedophile.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 28, 2004 2:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Every little bit helps. Exposing Islam may help non-Muslims understand what a vile religion it is. That, of course, can never be a bad thing.
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 28, 2004 2:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zorasta_Russ wrote:
Dear Hector

I doubt that Islamists will have a go at this one. However I don't believe the story about Mohammed's marriage to Aiesha. It's a story put together from gossip and rumor.

Rumors usually arise because of a lack of information. From Mohammed's death until Ibn Ishaq is about 3 generations which is more than enough time for rumor to become legend. Then legend becomes sacred history which is mythology.

I don't like to waste my time proving that Mohammed was a pedophile.
Although Mohammed is mentioned in extra-Islamic sources dating around the middle of the 7th century, for example Doctrina Jacobi, I can't prove that Aiesha existed.


Answers from Islamists will vary. One will tell you that the Qur'an is their primary source of guidance and that you are quoting weak Hadiths. Another one will tell you that girls menstruate earlier in hot climates. A few will deny the story because it is not in the Qur'an. There is a mass of contridictions from Islamic sources.


Islam has a problem here. If the stories about Mohammed are false then so is Islam. If the stories are true then he was a criminal unfit to be a prophet of God.


Regards Russell


Even if what you say is accepted, the issue then becomes what had become acceptable by the islamic civilisation within 3 generations. That is a very broad condemnation of Islam than merely showing anything about Aisha and Muhammad. It is equivalent to the condemnation of the present Iranian Mullahs by showing that Khomeni said it is allright to have sex with babies. That puts it beyond the pale for all westerners. Here Hector is showing that Khomeni was not unusual about that. Pedophilia is built into the Islamic civilisation where within 3 generation of Muhammad one can see the High muckity muck mullahs of islam are completely accepting of sex with little children and crediting their prophet for setting the trend.
Demonstrating it for Muhammad ofcourse causes problem with the foundations of Islam, but demonstrating that pedophilia was acceptable within 3 generations condemns the entire civilisation that Muhammad spawned.
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Cyberite wrote:
Hector wrote:
Proving Aisha was prepubescent when Muhammad first bonked her exposes him as a pervert. Thus, all Muslims are followers of a pervert and believe in a pervert's beliefs. There is no credibility left in the Quran once Muhammad is proven to be a pedophile.


How will the 800 million who are illiterate learn of this? Will the mullahs tell them? Will they believe Western scholars?

Seems like a fool's errand to me.


I did not know it before. Now I do. It is not only muslims who need this education. Lots of people in the west need the education as well. The mentality that islam is just another religion is still healthier in the west than it should be. To change that requires education of the kafirs.
Most westerners have no problem thinking Khomenii was an evil power hungrey founder of the present mullah rule. What they need to know is that he was merely emulating Muhammad who set the rules for Khomenii.
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PostPosted: Wed Jun 30, 2004 7:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

PROOF THAT MUHAMMAD WAS A PEDOPHILE


Section 1: Proof that Aisha was pre-pubescent when Muhammad married and had sex with her

Islamists like to claim that Aisha had reached puberty by the time Muhammad married and had sex with her. However, they never provide verifiable proof that Aisha actually was pubescent when Muhammad married and had sex with her, but commonly claim traditions or cultural practices as proof. This is, of course, false as demonstrated by the hadiths and the commentary of one of Islam’s most famous hadith scholars, Imam Al-Hafiz Ibn Hajar Al-'Asqalani, Commander of the Faithful in Hadith, Qadi of Egypt, and author of the celebrated commentary on Sahih Bukhari, Fateh al-Bari.

To prove Aisha was pre-pubescent when Muhammad married and had sex with her, one has to understand Ibn Hajar’s explanation of the permissibility of doll-playing for pre-pubescent girls. Then applying this doll-playing exegesis to hadiths of Aisha getting married or when she first had sex with Muhammad, one can then demonstrate that she was pre-pubescent on these occasions.



Part 1: Proof that doll-playing girls are pre-pubescent

This is what the great hadith scholar, Shaykh al-Islam Imam Al-Hafiz Ibn Hajar Al-'Asqalani, Commander of the Faithful in Hadith, Qadi of Egypt, said regarding doll-playing and little girls:

Sahih Bukhari Volume 8, Book 73, Number 151
Narrated 'Aisha: I used to play with the dolls in the presence of the Prophet, and my girl friends also used to play with me. When Allah's Apostle used to enter they used to hide themselves, but the Prophet would call them to join and play with me. (The playing with the dolls and similar images is forbidden, but it was allowed for 'Aisha at that time, as she was a little girl, not yet reached the age of puberty.) (Fateh-al-Bari page 143, Vol.13)


How do we know that Ibn Hajar made the doll-playing exegesis: “The playing with the dolls and similar images is forbidden, but it was allowed for 'Aisha at that time, as she was a little girl, not yet reached the age of puberty”?

Because of the reference to Fateh-al-Bari and because when we look at other translations of Bukhari 8:151, the same message is conveyed.

Alternative translation 1:
http://www.themuslimwoman.com/beware/GirlsPlayingDolls.htm

On the authority of Aisha (RA), who said: I used to play with dolls in the presence of the Prophet (SAW). And I had girl-friends (playmates) who played along with me. They would hide (feeling shy) from him (SAW) whenever he entered. But, he (SAW) would send for them to join me and they would play with me. (Sahih Bukhari & Muslim)

[The translator then provides some discussion about translations of various versions of this hadith before he follows up with Ibn Hajar and Fath-al-Bari]

Al-Haafidh Ibn Hajar said in Fath al-Baaree (Fath al-Baaree, no. 6130, Kitaab: al-Adab, Baab: al-Inbisaat ilaa an-Naas): This Hadith has been used as a proof for the permissibility of possessing (suwar - of) dolls and toys for the purpose of the little girls playing with them. This has been especially exempted from the general prohibition of possession of images (suwar).


Alternative translation 2:
http://63.175.194.25/index.php?ln=eng&ds=qa&lv=browse&QR=49844&dgn=4

But if these images and dolls are toys for children, the Sunnah indicates that they are permissible. In al-Saheehayn it is narrated that ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) said: “I used to play with dolls in the presence of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and I had female friends who would play with me…” al-Bukhaari, 6130; Muslim, 2440.

Ibn Hajar said: This hadeeth indicates that it is permissible to have images of girls (i.e., dolls) and toys for girls to play with. This is an exception from the general meaning of the prohibition on having images. This was stated by ‘Iyaad and was narrated from the majority. They permitted the sale of dolls to girls so as to teach them from a young age how to take care of their homes and children. Ibn Hibbaan stated that it is permissible for young girls to play with toys…


Alternative translation 3:
http://www.bilalphilips.com/books/eemaan/eemaan05.htm

Aaishah said, “I used to play with dolls in the presence of the Prophet (pbuh), and my girlfriends used to play along with me. Whenever, Allaah's Messenger (pbuh) would enter, they would hide from him. So he called them to play with me.”

In the classical commentary on Saheeh al-Bukhaare entitled Fat-h al-Baaree, Ibn Hajar al-'Asqalaanee wrote the following: “This hadeeth is used as evidence for the permissibility of making dolls and toys with human and animal forms for the purpose of girls playing with them. This category has been specifically excluded from the general prohibition against making images. ‘Iyaad stated this to be categorically so and related that it was the position of the majority of scholars. He further related that they permitted the selling of toys for girls in order to train them from their youth in their household affairs and in dealing with their children…”

Note the great similarity in the commentaries of Ibn Hajar in Fateh al-Bari all four versions of the hadith. The words are different because of the different translators but the essential message is unchanged – only little girls (i.e. before puberty) are permitted to play with dolls.


How do we know that little girls are pre-pubescent? Because Islamic customs and laws specifically state so.

For example:
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamentals/pillars/fasting/tajuddin/fast_21.html

Girls reach puberty and adulthood when they experience the above three signs. However, they have a fourth sign, that is, menstruation (hayd). Whenever a girl experiences it, she is a woman even if she is 12 years old.

http://www.alinaam.org.za/social/myaaisha.htm
http://www.lightuponlight.com/islam/modules.php?name=News&file=article&sid=151

Islam And the Age of Puberty
Islam clearly teaches that adulthood starts when a person have attained puberty.


These Islamic websites provide the evidence that in Islam, when a girl reaches puberty, she ceases to be a girl and becomes a woman. Therefore, little girls must be pre-pubescent according to Islamic customs and laws.


We also have commentaries by hadith scholars that reinforce this point.

http://www.themuslimwoman.com/beware/GirlsPlayingDolls.htm

Al-Qaadee 'Iyaad has stated this position with definiteness, and transmitted it as the position of the Majority (Jumhoor) of the Scholars; and that they declared permissible the selling of toys/dolls (al-lu'ab) for little girls, to train them from childhood for the household responsibilities and child-rearing.

Al-Khattaabee said: … it is understood that playing with dolls (al-banaat) is not like the amusement from other images (suwar) concerning which the threat (wa'eed) of punishment is mentioned. The only reason why permission in this was given to Aisha (RA) is because she had not, at that time, reached the age of puberty.



http://www.themuslimwoman.com/beware/PossessionofDolls.htm

… Abu 'Ubaid, who said: We don't see there being any reason for that (permission to play with her dolls), except due to the fact that these toys are a source of amusement (lahw) for the children. So, if they were owned by adults, it would definitely have been detestable (makhrooh).



Part 2: Proof that Aisha was pre-pubescent when Muhammad first had sex with her on her wedding day


Tabari IX:131 “My mother came to me while I was being swung on a swing between two branches and got me down. My nurse took over and wiped my face with some water and started leading me. When I was at the door she stopped so I could catch my breath. I was brought in while Muhammad was sitting on a bed in our house. My mother made me sit on his lap. The other men and women got up and left. The Prophet consummated his marriage with me in my house when I was nine years old. Neither a camel nor a sheep was slaughtered on behalf of me.”

This hadith suggests that Muhammad had sex with Aisha in her house on her wedding day. However, was this event really on her wedding day? This is proven by the Sahih Bukhari hadith below. Note the similarity in accounts, although the Bukhari 5:234 hadith is more expansive on the fact that the events took place on Aisha’s wedding day.

Narrated Aisha: "The Prophet engaged me when I was a girl of six (years). We went to Medina and stayed at the home of Bani-al-Harith bin Khazraj. Then I got ill and my hair fell down. Later on my hair grew (again) and my mother, Um Ruman, came to me while I was playing in a swing with some of my girl friends. She called me, and I went to her, not knowing what she wanted to do to me. She caught me by the hand and made me stand at the door of the house. I was breathless then, and when my breathing became Alright, she took some water and rubbed my face and head with it. Then she took me into the house. There in the house I saw some Ansari women who said, "Best wishes and Allah's Blessing and a good luck." Then she entrusted me to them and they prepared me (for the marriage). Unexpectedly Allah's Apostle came to me in the forenoon and my mother handed me over to him, and at that time I was a girl of nine years of age. (Translation of Sahih Bukhari, Merits of the Helpers in Madinah (Ansaar), Volume 5, Book 58, Number 234)"


Sahih Muslim Book 8, Number 3311
'A'isha reported that Allah's Apostle married her when she was seven years old, and (s)he was taken to his house as a bride when she was nine, and her dolls were with her; and when he died she was eighteen years old.


Note that Sahih Muslim says that Aisha still had her dolls with her when she was taken to Muhammad’s house as a bride. Applying Ibn Hajar’s doll-playing exegesis from Part 1, it becomes clear that Aisha was pre-pubescent when she became a bride.


Therefore, it is abundantly clear from the hadiths that Aisha was pre-pubescent when Muhammad first had sex with her on her wedding day.



Part 3: Proof from Sunan Abu Dawud

This proof is slightly controversial because not every Muslim accepts the hadiths of Sunan Abu Dawud to be sahih (authentic). However, Sunan Abu Dawud is still the third most respected collection of hadiths, and the relevant Abu Dawud hadith used here is considered sahih by some of the most authoritative hadith scholars, including Shaykh Abdul Azeez al-Qaari' (Imaam of Masjid Qubaa and professor of tafseer and Quranic recitation at the Islamic University of Madeenah).


From Abu Dawud, Vol. 2, #2116: "Aisha said, "The Apostle of Allah married me when I was seven years old." (The narrator Sulaiman said: "Or six years."). "He had intercourse with me when I was 9 years old."

Here we see that Muhammad has sex with Aisha when she was 9 years old. Is this age confirmed by other hadiths? Yes.

Sahih Bukhari Volume 5, Book 58, Number 236.
Narrated Hisham's father:
Khadija died three years before the Prophet departed to Medina. He stayed there for two years or so and then he married 'Aisha when she was a girl of six years of age, and he consumed (sic – consummated) that marriage when she was nine years old.

Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 64
Narrated 'Aisha:
that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death).

Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 65
Narrated 'Aisha:
that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old. Hisham said: I have been informed that 'Aisha remained with the Prophet for nine years (i.e. till his death)." what you know of the Quran (by heart)'

Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 88
Narrated 'Ursa:
The Prophet wrote the (marriage contract) with 'Aisha while she was six years old and consummated his marriage with her while she was nine years old and she remained with him for nine years (i.e. till his death).

Sunan Abu-Dawud Book 41, Number 4915, also Number 4915 and Number 4915
Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:
The Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) married me when I was seven or six. When we came to Medina, some women came. according to Bishr's version: Umm Ruman came to me when I was swinging. They took me, made me prepared and decorated me. I was then brought to the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him), and he took up cohabitation with me when I was nine. She halted me at the door, and I burst into laughter.


Islamists will insist that the term 'consummate the marriage' means 'nikah', not sex. This is despite the Abu Dawud hadith Vol. 2, #2116 translation that explicits states 'intercourse'. Be that as it may, does 'consummate the marriage' mean sex? Here is proof that it does.

http://www.exmuslim.com/com/evidence.htm

There has been some confusion about the definition of the word "consummate". In Sahih Bukhari, vol. 7, #64, the root word used is "dakhala". From the Hans-Wehr Arabic-English Dictionary p273, it means "to enter, to pierce, to penetrate, to consummate the marriage, cohabit, sleep with a woman".


But how do we know that at the age of nine Aisha was still pre-pubescent? Here is the evidence from Sunan Abu Dawood, Vol. 3, #4914 (This hadith is also repeated in Sunan Nasa’i):

http://www.themuslimwoman.com/beware/PossessionofDolls.htm

Possession of Dolls By Little Girls
On the authority of Aisha (RA), that she said:
The Messenger of Allah (SAW) returned from the battle of Tabook or Khaibar (the narrator of the hadith was in doubt about whether he was told "Tabook or Khaibar."). There was a curtain covering her 'sahwah' (chamber or small room in front of the house). The wind blew a side of the curtain and uncovered Aisha's dolls. He (SAW) said: What is this, O Aisha? She said: My dolls. The he (SAW) saw amongst them a horse with two wings from scraps of cloth. He (SAW) said: What is this which I see amongst them (amongst the dolls)? She said: A horse. He asked: What is upon it? She said: Two wings. He (SAW) asked (in astonishment): A horse with two wings? She said: Didn't you hear that Sulaiman (Solomon - AS) had horses with wings? She said: Then he (SAW) laughed until I saw his molar teeth. [Abu Daawood, An-Nasaa'iee as-Sunan al-Kubraa, Albani (ra) says the chain of narrators of an-Nasaa'ee is authentic (Saheeh). As for the chain of narrators of Abu Daawood, Albani (ra) has also declared it to be authentic (saheeh)]

Shaykh Muhammad Shams al-Haqq al-'Adheem Aabaadee, in his Sharh (explanation) of Sunan Abu Daawood, says: This hadith and the one before it (Hadith #20) is used as an evidence of permissibility of possession of dolls and toys for the purpose of little girls playing with them. This (permission) is a special exception from the general prohibition of possession of images (suwar). This position has been stated with certainty by al-Qaadee 'Iyaad, and he has quoted it as the opinion of the Jumhoor (Majority of Scholars). He also said that the Jumhoor has allowed the sale of toys (dolls) for little girls, in order to train and prepare them from childhood for their household affairs and the raising of their children.


According to the generally accepted tradition, Aisha was born about eight years before Hijrah. The battle of Khaibar took place in Muharram-Safar 7 AH. The siege of Tabuk took place in Rajab 9 AH. Therefore, to be generous, I accept the Khaibar explanation and not the later, Tabuk explanation.

It is generally accepted that Aisha was betrothed to Muhammad at the age of 6 in the year 3 BH. This is confirmed by reports that the marriage was consummated in Shawwal, which came seven months after the Prophet's hijra from Makkah to al-Medinah.

So the Abu Dawood hadith says that Aisha was still playing with dolls at least as late as 7 AH. That is 6-7 years after her marriage. Using the doll-playing exegesis of Ibn Hajar, Abu Ubaid, al-Qaadee 'Iyaad, and Shaykh Muhammad Shams al-Haqq, Aisha did not reach puberty until at least 6-7 years after her marriage when she would have been about 15-16 years old, but lets say 14 years old to be generous.


Note that some Islamists will try to say that this hadith is not sahih. They will use this translation of the same hadith and point out the phrase (the narrator is doubtful):

Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin: When the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) arrived after the expedition to Tabuk or Khaybar (the narrator is doubtful), the draught raised an end of a curtain which was hung in front of her store-room, revealing some dolls which belonged to her.

He asked: What is this? She replied: My dolls. Among them he saw a horse with wings made of rags, and asked: What is this I see among them? She replied: A horse. He asked: What is this that it has on it? She replied: Two wings. He asked: A horse with two wings? She replied: Have you not heard that Solomon had horses with wings? She said: Thereupon the Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) laughed so heartily that I could see his molar teeth. [Sunan Abu Dawood, Vol. 3, #4914]



The evidence that this hadith is sahih, and that the phrase (the narrator is doubtful) does not mean that the hadith is doubtful but that the narrator was doubtful about being told it was Khaybar or Tabuk, are as follows:

1. Various versions of the hadith include confirmation that it is sahih/authenticated/authentic, including one that refers to Sahih Abu Dawud (a collection of Abu Dawud hadiths that are deemed sahih):

A. http://www.themuslimwoman.com/beware/PossessionofDolls.htm

On the authority of Aisha (RA), that she said:
The Messenger of Allah (SAW) returned from the battle of Tabook or Khaibar (the narrator of the hadith was in doubt about whether he was told "Tabook or Khaibar."). There was a curtain covering her 'sahwah' (chamber or small room in front of the house). The wind blew a side of the curtain and uncovered Aisha's dolls. He (SAW) said: What is this, O Aisha? She said: My dolls. The he (SAW) saw amongst them a horse with two wings from scraps of cloth. He (SAW) said: What is this which I see amongst them (amongst the dolls)? She said: A horse. He asked: What is upon it? She said: Two wings. He (SAW) asked (in astonishment): A horse with two wings? She said: Didn't you hear that Sulaiman (Solomon - AS) had horses with wings? She said: Then he (SAW) laughed until I saw his molar teeth.
[Abu Daawood, An-Nasaa'iee as-Sunan al-Kubraa, Albani (ra) says the chain of narrators of an-Nasaa'ee is authentic (Saheeh). As for the chain of narrators of Abu Daawood, Albani (ra) has also declared it to be authentic (saheeh)]


B. http://www.bilalphilips.com/books/eemaan/eemaan05.htm

Aboo Daawood and an-Nasaa’ee collected this hadeeth in another chain from Aaishah in which she said, “When Allaah’s Messenger (pbuh) arrived after the expedition to Tabuk or Khaybar, the wind raised an end of a curtain which hung in front of my closet, revealing some dolls which belonged to me. He asked me, ‘What is this?’ I replied: My dolls. He saw among them a horse made of wrapped cloth with wings, and asked, ‘What is this I am seeing among them?’ I replied: A horse. He asked, ‘A horse with wings?’ I replied: Have you not heard that Solomon had horses with wings? Allaah's Messenger (pbuh) laughed so heartily that I could see his molar teeth.”5 This hadeeth is very clear that the meaning of playthings (lu‘ab) mentioned in the earlier narration does not refer to humans.

5 Sunan Abu Dawud, vol. 3, p. 1373, no.4914 and authenticated in Saheeh Sunan Abee Daawood, vol. 3, p. 932, no. 4123.


C. http://members.tripod.com/ahya/eng/home.html

On the authority of Aa'ishah (radiyallahu anha), who said: 'The Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) returned from the battle of Tabook or it was Khaybar. There was a curtain over my room. The wind blew, lifting the curtain and exposing a part of my room in which, Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) saw some dolls with which Aa'ishah (radhi allahu anhu) used to play. He said: “What is this O Aa'ishah?” She replied 'my daughters (Arabs used to call dolls, daughters). He saw among them a horse with two wings made out of a piece of cloth. He said: “What is this?” She replied: 'A horse' He said: “and what are those on the horses?” She replied: 'Two wings' He said: “A horse with two wings?!” Aa'ishah said: 'The Prophet laughed until I could see his molar teeth.' [Authentic - Abo Dawood An Nisa'ee in Al-Ishrah]

Not only is the chain of narrators authentic according to Albani - but two other Islamic sources say 'authentic or authenticated.'


2. The version from the themuslimwoman.com site says that, “the narrator of the hadith was in doubt about whether he was told "Tabook or Khaibar”. That is, not in doubt about the hadith.


3. alternative translations do not carry the word ‘doubt’

http://www.islamicdawah.mobilixnet.dk/islam/Women/obligation_of_man.htm

Also on the authority of Aisha who said: “The Prophet (saw) returned from the battle of Tabuk, or it was Khaybar. There was a curtain over her room. The wind blew, lifting the curtain and exposing part of the room in which the Prophet (saw) saw some dolls with which Aisha used to play. He said, “What is this, O Aisha?” She said: “My daughters.” (Arabs used to call dolls for “daughters”) He saw among them a horse with two wings made of pieces of cloth. He said “And what is this in the middle?” She said, “A horse.” He said, “and what are those on the horse?” She said: “Two wings.” He said, ”A horse with two wings?!” Aisha said: “The Prophet (saw) laughed until I could see his molar teeth” (Abu Daawood, an-Nasaa’ee).


http://members.tripod.com/ahya/eng/home.html

On the authority of Aa'ishah (radiyallahu anha), who said: 'The Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) returned from the battle of Tabook or it was Khaybar. There was a curtain over my room. The wind blew, lifting the curtain and exposing a part of my room in which, Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) saw some dolls with which Aa'ishah (radhi allahu anhu) used to play. He said: “What is this O Aa'ishah?” She replied 'my daughters (Arabs used to call dolls, daughters). He saw among them a horse with two wings made out of a piece of cloth. He said: “What is this?” She replied: 'A horse' He said: “and what are those on the horses?” She replied: 'Two wings' He said: “A horse with two wings?!” Aa'ishah said: 'The Prophet laughed until I could see his molar teeth.' [Authentic - Abo Dawood An Nisa'ee in Al-Ishrah]



4. Authoritative Islamic scholars still use this hadith in their judgment of Islamic laws and customs

http://www.bilalphilips.com/books/eemaan/eemaan05a.htm

Shaykh Abdul Azeez al-Qaari' (Imaam of Masjid Qubaa and professor of tafseer and Quranic recitation at the Islamic University of Madeenah) had this to say about image-making in al-Usrah:

“Regarding the hadeeth of Aaishah that she played with dolls in the presence of the Prophet (pbuh), and, in some versions of the hadeeth, that one of the dolls was in the shape of a winged horse, and that when the Prophet (pbuh) asked her about it, she replied, ‘Didn't you hear that [Prophet] Sulayman had a horse with wings?’ to which the Prophet (pbuh) responded by laughing; this hadeeth indicates the permissibility of children’s figurative toys, owning them and using them, whether they are clearly representative or not, and whether skillfully or crudely fashioned. There is no basis in the hadeeth for making a distinction. Those who say that Aaishah's dolls were not distinctly representative have made an arbitrary judgement not based on any evidence. What do they say about a winged horse?”


How can Islamists claim that the Imam of Masjid Qubaa and professor of tafseer and Quranic recitation at the Islamic University of Madeenah uses a hadith that is not sahih to pronounce on the permissibility of doll-playing among Saudi Arabian children? For by doing so, even Shaykh Abdul Azeez al-Qaari' of Saudi Arabia seems to accept that this hadith is sahih.

If using a weak hadith a scholar has to warn the reader about its weakness. http://www.islamonline.net/fatwa/english/FatwaDisplay.asp?hFatwaID=105213

“Generally, in Islamic law, only the authentic (sahih) and good (hasan) hadiths are used in deriving the rules. The weak (da`if) hadiths have no value for the purpose of Shari`ah. However, the scholars of hadith sometimes differ among themselves in the determination of whether some Hadiths are weak or not. The scholars have sometimes used weak hadiths for moral and spiritual (fada'il) matters. It is important that when one uses a weak hadith for any reason, one should explain it to the people that this is weak hadith and that it is being used for this particular reason."

It is clear from the article that Shaykh Abdul Azeez al-Qaari' (Imaam of Masjid Qubaa and professor of tafseer and Quranic recitation at the Islamic University of Madeenah) didn't say anything about Abu Dawud 4914 being weak - thus it cannot be weak.

Also look at what the reference says at the end of the article:
Sunan Abu Dawud, vol. 3, p. 1373, no.4914 and authenticated in Saheeh Sunan Abee Daawood, vol. 3, p. 932, no. 4123


CONCLUSION

In Part 1, I prove that in Islam, doll-playing girls are pre-pubescent according to the doll-playing exegesis of Ibn Hajar and Islamic laws and customs.

In Part 2, I prove that using Ibn Hajar’s doll-playing exegesis, Aisha can be proven to be still pre-pubescent when she married and had sex with Muhammad.

In Part 3, I prove that Aisha was still pre-pubescent as late as 6-7 years after her marriage to Muhammad.


Section 2: Proof that Muhammad was a pedophile according to DSM-IV-TR

Even according to the most stringent clinical definition of pedophilia, DSM-IV-TR, Muhammad would be defined as a pedophile. Note that there are other generally accepted definitions of pedophilia that do not confine the definition to pre-pubertal children or require fantasies, sexual urges or behaviors over a certain period of time. However, for the sake of this discussion I will confine my argument to DSM-IV-TR.


Diagnostic criteria for 302.2 Pedophilia
1.Over a period of at least six months, recurrent, intense sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors involving sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children (generally age 13 years or younger).

2.The person has acted on these sexual urges, or the sexual urges or fantasies caused marked distress or interpersonal difficulty.

3.The person is at least age 16 years and at least 5 years older than the child or children in Criterion A.

Note: Do not include an individual in late adolescence involved in an ongoing sexual relationship with a 12- or 13-year-old.



Does Muhammad meet all these criteria?

1. Yes - Muhammad had sexual relations with a pre-pubescent girl for a prolonged period – likely to be at least 6-7 years.

2. Yes - Muhammad had acted on his sexual urges – as demonstrated by Tabari IX:131 and various Bukhari hadiths (stating consummation at age nine when it has been established that Aisha didn’t reach puberty until she was at least 14 years old).

3. Yes - Muhammad was 57 years old when Aisha was only 9 years old when they first had sex.


Therefore, even according to the strict clinical definition of DSM-IV-TR it can be proven that Muhammad was a pedophile.


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