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Banish Them to Their Beds and Beat Them -- Muhammad's Low Opinion of Women
Banish Them to Their Beds and Scourge Them!
Muhammads Low Opinion of Women
By David Wood
The status of women in the Arab world is a source of frequent criticism
against Islam. Women in the West have fixed their gaze on the polygamy, veils, and other
inequalities in Muslim countries and are concerned about the rapid spread of Islam. When
Western critics charge that Islam teaches the inferiority of women, Muslims often argue
that any disparity between men and women is the result of cultural differences, rather
than of Islamic law:
The Quran enshrined a new status for women and gave them
rights that they could have only dreamed of before in Arabia, so why the seeming
disparity between what once was and what now appears to be? The answer lies in the
deterioration of basic Islamic education that occurred in the Muslim world after the
disasters of the Mongol invasions and the Crusades in the eleventh through thirteenth
centuries. . . . Cultures that arose since that time have been characterized by customs
and local cultural leanings more than genuine Islamic values.[1]
The treatment of women in the Muslim world, then, is the result of the
Crusades and the Mongol invasions. If it werent for the Christians and the Mongols,
Muslim women would still be enjoying the prominent status given to them by Muhammad.
Muslim apologists have done an outstanding job convincing people that
Muhammad was a champion of womens rights. Indeed, arguments for Muhammads
liberation of women have convinced some that "Muhammad was probably the greatest
champion of womens rights the world has ever seen."[2]
Descriptions of Muhammads improvements in the area of gender relations abound
in Muslim writings:
So far back as the seventh century of the Christian era,
Islam abolished the horrible practice of female infanticide prevalent among the pagan
Arabs, gave clear directions leading to the restriction of polygamy, restrained the
unlimited rights exercised by men over their wives, and gave woman both spiritual and
material equality with man.[3]
Arab human rights were quite backward, even for the time. Women had
precious few rights. A woman became the property of a man upon marriage, and no woman
could refuse a match made by her father. Spousal abuse was rampant, with no recourse to
any quarter for help. Upon the death of her husband, a woman could be inherited by her son
and made her sons wife. Female infanticide in which newborn baby girls were buried
alive in the sand was quite common in a society that considered surplus females a burden.
Women had no divorce or well-defined inheritance rights and certainly no political vote.
A man could divorce without reason and leave a woman penniless, and there was no limit
to the number of wives a man could have, nor rules for how each should be treated. . . .
Arabian custom had always dictated that women should take no public role in religious or
political activity. The superiority of men over women in all respects was also a widely
accepted notion. Muhammad changed that notion by asserting that men and women were equals
before God in every sphere. . . . To examine the record of Muhammad and his mission
is to gain a new respect for the improvements he made in the lives of both men and
women.[4]
The Quran provided women with explicit rights to inheritance, to
property, the obligation to testify in a court of law, and the right to divorce. It made
explicit prohibitions on the use of violence against female children and women as well as
on duress in marriage and community affairs. . . . Women were equally responsible for
ensuring that all religious duties of the individual and society were fulfilled, in terms
of punishment for social, criminal and moral infractions. They were also offered equal
opportunities to attain the ultimate boon: paradise and proximity to Allah if they strove
with all their means to establish what is good and forbid what is
evil.[5]
While it is true that Muhammad raised the status of Arabian women in some
respects,[6] we cannot let this fact cloud certain other issues,
namely, (1) that Muhammad permitted husbands to beat their wives, (2) that he repeatedly proclaimed
the inferiority of womens intellectual abilities, (3) that he taught that womens
prospects for the afterlife are extremely bleak, and (4) that, according to Muhammad, it
is acceptable for men to rape their female captives. When combined with the above passages
describing Muhammads beneficial impact on society, these four facts allow us to
arrive at a more accurate and well-rounded picture of Muhammads view of women.
Four Facts
FACT #1: The Quran allows (or, perhaps, commands) men
to beat their wives into subservience. If a wife doesnt listen to her husband,
the husband should admonish her. If that doesnt work, he is to make her sleep in
a separate bed. However, if the wife still doesnt respect her husbands
authority, even after she has been banished to another bed, the husband is told to
physically punish her. Consider three translations of the following verse:
Men are in charge of women, because Allah hath made the one of them
to excel the other, and because they spend of their property (for the support of women).
So good women are the obedient, guarding in secret what Allah hath guarded. As for
those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and
scourge them. Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Lo! Allah is ever
High Exalted, Great.[7]
Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to
excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore
obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you
fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them;
then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great.[8]
Men are the protectors And maintainers of women, Because Allah has
given The one more (strength) Than the other, and because They support them From their
means. Therefore the righteous women Are devoutly obedient, and guard In (the
husbands) absence What Allah would have them guard. As to those women On whose
part ye fear Disloyalty and ill-conduct, Admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share
their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); But if they return to obedience, Seek not
against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, Great (above you all).[9]
Muslim translators have struggled with this passage and have sought
ways to water down its clear meaning. For instance, Ali adds the word "lightly"
to his translation, which doesnt occur in the original Arabic. However, even if we
allow Ali to tone down the parts of the Quran he finds offensive, the verse still
allows husbands to beat their wives. Hence, according to Gods last and greatest
prophet, spousal abuse is permissible, and perhaps even required. Modern nations that have
established laws against spousal abuse are therefore in direct violation of Allahs
command in the Quran.
FACT #2: According to Muhammad, women lack common sense because their
minds are deficient. Of course, this declaration didnt go unchallenged. To his
credit, Muhammad allowed women to question him about their intellectual deficiencies. His
response to these questions was illuminating:
[Muhammad said]: O womenfolk, you should give charity
and ask much forgiveness for I saw you in bulk amongst the dwellers of Hell. A wise lady
among them said: Why is it, Messenger of Allah, that our folk is in bulk in Hell? Upon
this the Holy Prophet observed: You curse too much and are ungrateful to your spouses. I
have seen none lacking in common sense and failing in religion but (at the same time)
robbing the wisdom of the wise, besides you. Upon this the woman remarked: What is wrong
with our common sense and with religion? He (the Holy Prophet) observed: Your lack of
common sense (can be well judged from the fact) that the evidence of two women is equal to
one man, that is a proof of the lack of common sense.[10]
The Prophet (the blessing and peace of Allah be upon him) said:
"Isnt the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man?"
The women said: "Yes." He said: "This is because of the deficiency of
her mind."[11]
Notice here that, in the first passage, Muhammad justifies his claim
that women lack common sense by stating that their testimony is worth half that of a man.
Yet, in the second passage, Muhammad justifies his claim that the testimony of women is
half as good as mens testimony by stating that women have deficient minds. This is a
classic example of circular reasoning. We can imagine a conversation between
Muhammad and a more critical questioner:
| Questioner: | | "O Muhammad! Why is Hell full of women?" |
| Muhammad: | | "Because they lack common sense!" |
| Questioner: | | "How do you know they lack common sense?" |
| Muhammad: | | "Their lack of common sense can be seen from the
fact that their testimony is only half as good as a mans testimony." |
| Questioner: | | "But why is their testimony half as good as a
mans?" |
| Muhammad: | | "Because of the deficiency of their minds!" |
| Questioner: | | "How do you know that their minds are
deficient?" |
| Muhammad: | | "The deficiency of their minds can be seen from
the fact that their testimony is worth half the testimony of a man." |
| Questioner: | | "Again, why is their testimony half as
good?" |
| Muhammad: | | "Because their minds are deficient!" |
| Questioner: | | "Maybe the only thing deficient here is your
argument." |
Notice also that Muhammads claims here are falsifiable.
That is, they can be tested and, in theory, disproved. We could easily set up an
experiment to see whether Muhammads statements about the inferiority of a
womans intellect are correct. We could also set up an experiment in which a group of
men and a group of women each witness the same accident. If the testimonies gathered from
the male group are twice as accurate as the testimonies taken from the female group,
Muhammads statements will have been vindicated. On the other hand, if the reports
from the two groups are similar, we can dismiss Muhammads ideas as the sexist
comments of a man affected by cultural biases.
FACT #3: Muhammad offered women little hope for the afterlife.
Indeed, he clearly states that most of the inhabitants of hell are women who were
ungrateful to their husbands (though he never suggests that ungrateful husbands will
receive similar punishment[12]). This means that, after
being admonished, banished to a separate bed, and beaten by her husband, a willful woman
can look forward to an eternity in hell:
The Prophet (the blessing and peace of Allah be upon
him) said: "I saw paradise and stretched my hands towards a bunch (of its fruits) and
had I taken it, you would have eaten from it as long as the world remains. I also saw the
Hell-fire and I had never seen such a horrible sight. I saw that most of the inhabitants
were women." The people asked: "O Allahs Apostle! Why is it so?" The
Prophet (the blessing and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "Because of their
ungratefulness." It was asked whether they are ungrateful to Allah. The Prophet (the
blessing and peace of Allah be upon him) said: "They are ungrateful to their
companions of life (husbands) and ungrateful to good deeds."[13]
[Muhammad said], "O women! Give to charity, for I have seen that
the majority of the dwellers of Hell-Fire were women." The women asked, "O
Allahs Apostle! What is the reason for it?" He said: "O women! You curse
frequently, and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in
intelligence and religion than you. O women, some of you can lead a cautious man
astray."[14]
However, even if these women were to stop cursing and to start thanking
their husbands, their prospects for the afterlife would still leave much to be desired.
According to Muhammad, Muslim women can look forward to an eternity of standing in
corners, waiting for men to come and have sex with them:
Allahs Apostle (The blessing and peace of Allah be
upon him) said: "In Paradise there is a pavilion made of a single hollow pearl sixty
miles wide, in each corner of which there are wives who will not see those in the other
corners; and the believers will visit and enjoy them."[15]
Hence, good Muslim women who respect their husbands in this life will have
the opportunity to continue their sexual service to their husbands in "Paradise."
Apparently, Muhammad considered this to be an appropriate view of Paradise; many women would
rightly disagree.
FACT #4: The Quran permits Muslims to have sex with their female
captives and slaves (i.e. those "whom their right hands possess"). As the
Muslim armies raided town after town, they captured many women, who would often be sold or
traded. Yet, since the Muslim men were a long way from their wives, they needed wisdom
from God to guide them in their treatment of their female captives:
The Believers must (Eventually) win throughThose
who humble themselves In their prayers; Who avoid vain talk; Who are active in deeds Of
charity; Who abstain from sex, Except with those joined To them in the marriage bond,
Or (the captives) whom Their right hands possessFor (in their case) they are Free
from blame.[16]
Not so those devoted To PrayerThose who remain steadfast To their
prayer; And those in whose wealth Is a recognized right For the (needy) who asks And him
who is prevented (For some reason from asking); And those who hold To the truth of the Day
Of Judgement; And those who fear The displeasure of their LordFor their Lords
displeasure Is the opposite of Peace And TranquilityAnd those who guard Their
chastity, Except with their wives And the (captives) whom Their right hands
possessFor (then) they are not To be blamed.[17]
The Muslim practice of having sex with captured women is reported often
in the Hadith, where we find Muslims perplexed about what to do with their captives. It
wasnt long before Allah sent a revelation allowing the confused soldiers to sleep
with the women:
Allahs Messenger (may peace be upon him) sent an
army to Autas and encountered the enemy and fought with them. Having overcome them and
taken them captives, the Companions of Allahs Messenger (may peace be upon him)
seemed to refrain from having intercourse with captive women because of their husbands
being polytheists. Then Allah, Most High, sent down regarding that: "And women
already married, except those whom your right hands possess (4:24)" (i.e. they were
lawful for them when their Idda period came to an end).[18]
We went out with Allahs Messenger (may peace be upon him) on the
expedition to the Bil-Mustaliq and took captive some excellent Arab women; and we
desired them, for we were suffering from the absence of our wives, (but at the same time)
we also desired ransom for them. So we decided to have sexual intercourse with them but by
observing azl (withdrawing the male sexual organ before emission of semen to avoid
conception). But we said: We are doing an act whereas Allahs Messenger is amongst
us; why not ask him? So we asked Allahs Messenger (may peace be upon him), and he
said: It does not matter if you do not do it, for every soul that is to be born up to the
Day of Resurrection will be born.[19]
We went out with Allahs Apostle (The blessing and peace of Allah
be upon him) for the invasion of Bun Al-Mustaliq and we received captives from among the
Arab captives and we desired women and celibacy became hard on us and we loved to do
coitus interruptus [same as "azl" above]. So when we intended to do coitus
interruptus, we said: "How can we do coitus interruptus before asking Allahs
Apostle (The blessing and peace of Allah be upon him) who is present among us? We asked
(him) about it and he said: "It is better for you not to do so, for if any soul till
the Day of Resurrection is predestined to exist, it will exist."[20]
Jabir bin Abdullah (Allah be pleased with them) reported that a person
asked Allahs Apostle (may peace be upon him) saying: I have a slave-girl and I
practice azl with her, whereupon Allahs Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: This
cannot prevent that which Allah has decreed. The person then came (after some time) and
said: Messenger of Allah, the slave-girl about whom I talked to you has conceived,
whereupon Allahs Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: I am the servant of Allah
and His Messenger.[21]
The Muslims had originally refrained from having sex with their
captives because they were the wives of polytheists; nevertheless, God sent a message
saying that they were free to have sex with the women. Modern Muslims believe that this
sexual intercourse would only have occurred after marriage, but this view is clearly
false. Muhammads followers said that they wanted to have sex with the women but that
they still wanted to sell them. They asked Muhammad about performing coitus interruptus,
but Muhammad answered that it doesnt really matter. All children who are destined to
be born will be born, so it doesnt matter if a man practices coitus interruptus
or not.
Thus, the Quran permits men to have sex with their female captives
(whose husbands were sometimes still alive[22]), and the Hadith
provides examples of when this was practiced. Yet we must follow this fact through to its logical
conclusion. The Muslims decided to have sex with their captives, whom they were later going
to sell. These captives were women whose husbands and families had been exterminated by the
Muslims. Would these women gladly consent to sexual intercourse with the men who had
killed their families? Probably not. But since the Quran and Muhammad authorized sex
with these captives, it is highly probable that Muhammad allowed Muslims to rape their
captives.
Assessment
Muhammad improved the lives of women in Arabia in some ways.[23]
However, Muslims sometimes use this fact as evidence of Muhammads prophethood. Such an
argument is absurd. All that is implied by the improvement in womens lives is that
Islam wasnt as bad as the culture before it, which says more about the pagans than
it does about the Muslims. For, as we have seen, Muhammad permitted spousal abuse, stated
repeatedly that women have inferior minds, claimed that most of the people in hell are
women, and allowed his men to have sex with their captives. This situation was still
probably better than that of women prior to the rise of Islam; however, Muhammad was far
from being "the greatest champion of womens rights the world has ever
seen."
In the West, the status of women has greatly improved over the past few
centuries. We can all be thankful that people in some areas of the Muslim world are seeing
the change and are trying to adopt similar policies, in spite of Muhammads low
opinion of women. Yet many areas, intent on following Muhammads guidelines, are
still in darkness. We can only hope that those who want to heed the Quran will one
day pick up the Bible and read the words of the Apostle Paul:
Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.[24]
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave
himself up for her.[25]
You are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus, for all of you
who were baptized into the name of Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is
neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ
Jesus. If you belong to Christ, then you are Abrahams seed, and heirs according to
the promise.[26]
This article is a revised and expanded version of an essay that originally appeared
on www.answeringinfidels.com.
Notes:
1 Yahiya Emerick, Muhammad (Indianapolis: Alpha Books, 2002), p. 142.
2 Pierre Crabites, cited in Allama Sir Abdullah Al-Mamun Al-Suhrawardy, The
Wisdom of Muhammad (New York: Citadel Press, 2001), p. 20.
3 Ibid., p. 20.
4 Emerick, pp. 8-9, 141, 142.
5 Ziauddin Sardar and Merryl Wyn Davies, The No-Nonsense Guide to Islam
(Oxford: New Internationalist Publications, 2004), pp. 121, 122.
6 In their efforts to provide evidence for Islam, Muslims tend to exaggerate the
immorality in Arabia before the rise of Islam, so much so that they sometimes conflict
with their own claims. For instance, it is often claimed that female infanticide was
horribly widespread in Arabia, and that Muhammad improved the situation by outlawing
infanticide. Yet Muslims also maintain that there was unbridled polygamy in Arabia, in
which men would sometimes marry hundreds of women; Muhammad supposedly improved the
situation by limiting men to no more than four wives. The problem here is obvious. If
everyone was murdering their daughters, how could there possibly have been so many women
to marry? If infanticide was common, women would have been a rare commodity. But there
were plenty of women to go around, so infanticide couldnt have been very
common. Further, when Muslims are criticized for allowing polygamy, they often argue that
polygamy was acceptable in the time of Muhammad because of the shortage of men. Yet if
infanticide was as common as Muslims claim, there would have been an even greater shortage
of women, so that polygamy would have been unnecessary.
7 Quran 4:34, Mohammed Pickthall Translation.
8 Quran 4:34, M.H. Shakir Translation.
9 Quran 4:34, Abdullah Yusuf Ali Translation.
10 Sahih Muslim, Abdul Hamid Siddiqi, tr., Number 142.
11 Sahih Al-Bukhari, Dr. Muhammad Matraji, tr. (New Delhi: Islamic Book
Service, 2002), Number 2658.
12 This raises an important question: Were Muslim women more ungrateful to their
husbands than husbands were to their wives? This doesnt seem likely. According to
Muslim apologists, womens rights were almost nonexistent in Arabia before Islam (but
see Note 23). Would Muslim men have had a great deal of gratitude towards their wives?
Probably not. The attitude would most likely have been, "You women had better thank
us for treating you so well." As it turns out, this is exactly the attitude we
see in Muhammad, who tells ungrateful women that their ingratitude will earn them a place
in hell.
13 Ibid., Number 1052.
14 Ibid., Number 1462.
15 Ibid., Number 4879.
16 Quran 23:1-6, Abdullah Yusuf Ali Translation.
17 Ibid., 70:22-30.
18 Sahih Muslim, Number 3432.
19 Ibid., Number 3371.
20 Sahih Al-Bukhari, Number 4138.
21 Sahih Muslim, Number 3384.
22 For more on this, see "Muhammad and the Female
Captives" and "Adultery:
Do It! Do It! Do It!"
23 In other ways, womens rights seem to have taken a step backwards with the
rise of Islam. For example, Muhammads first wife, Khadija, was a successful business
woman, who was able to select whomever she wished as a husband. Thus, we know that women
were able to have prominent positions in society and could wield a great deal of power
before the rise of Islam. Under Islamic Law, however, women couldnt so much as leave
their houses without the permission of their husbands (and could only do so in the proper
attire).
24 Colossians 3:19, New International Version.
25 Ephesians 5:25.
26 Galatians 3:26-29.
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